People are Our Reflection.

I remember that a friend of mine who works as a spiritual healer in Ubud said that people who came to her Tibetan Bowl meditation class in the same day were actually represent people who on that moment had similar situation or energy. People around us or who we met are actually our reflection. It could be an “alarm”. It made me now often wondering what kind of similarity or reflection that I should learn from people who I met. When I join a teaching or class, I tried to observe other attendees instead focus on the speaker or facilitator only.

And I notice that most of people who came to my reading session were also a mirror for me. This is what I should be grateful. When I read or heard their obstacles and difficulties, it often became a reminder that I was on the same shoes once then I should not make a same things or mistake again in the future. They also often remind me about what path that I want to be in.

I admire them as someone who wants to resolve their hard situation, moving forward and wanted to be better one or be happy ~ the things which I also still learn about.

Sometime during the session I was talking to myself, “oh wow... it sounds like me!” Things somehow shocking and knocking my mind: “I don’t want to be like that …“. It became a warning for me that I should keep improving myself ~ "you cant heal other before you heal yourself".

Then the “message” which came through my reading to assist them how to cope their situation at the end became guidance for me too. Well, that’s why I love doing reading session, I felt like in the same time Highest Divine was making conversation about me too. It felt like having conversation with best friends, sharing each other about our life, then the Highest Divine came and said, “Guys, you both actually just the same… So this is what you suppose to do…”… Then we both can say each other, “Ah, I understand (you) now”.

That is why I never being embarrassed to share the mistakes that I made or hard moment that I had. I wanted they learn from my experience and see the fact that we have power to change our life. When they felt resonate to have reading with me, it’s mean they probably need to learn from me and vice versa.

Just take a look at the people around you. They are your reflection too~ for good or bad things. What you need to do is only observe and listen, be open, not to judge, and understanding the essences why you met or engaged with them. When you judge people, you will miss the chance to learn something from other and see the truth about them and yourself.

Be grateful if people around you shared a lot of positive things and inspire you. But if you become aware that you spent a lot of time mostly with people who have a lot of negativity around, it’s a reflection that it’s time for you to connect with other who can help you to rise higher. At the end, there is a moment that you have to make a choice whether you should stay in the same crowd because you still need to learn things from them, or you need to leave and be with other people who can inspire you in better way.

Graphic : Simple Reminder