You are Living in the Real World.

How long or how many hours in a day you are engaged with your gadget and log on to social media? Do you feel that you will miss something if you don’t check your social media account every 30 minute? Do you always checking your friend’s profile to know further about their life? Do you feel you admire or don’t like someone after you saw their photo or posts on social media? Do you always add people who you don’t know as your friends? Do you always want to share everything that you do every day? Do you always think that it’s important to take a picture before you start to eat your meals or when you visit a place? Do you think that shared things you bought will make people admire you more?

If your answer mostly “yes” it’s mean you are not living in the “real” world. You don’t realize that you are feeding your thought with a lot of “toxic”. You are probably kind of the toxic people for other.

Have a wide network is great. Connected with people is wonderful. But when you spent a lot of time only to see and read things which actually not connected with you, you have to start to think what the benefit is for you by doing it.

Imagine that when you scroll down the screen of your gadget or computer, you read so many status: they are about angry statements, happy announcements, sad or grieving news and other… all of them could remind you about your own emotional baggage. If those could remind you to release or move forward, they would be a great remedy. But what if they made you became angry, sad, or regret about your life? And what if you became envy or jealous to them with no reason? Those the toxic that you get from them.

In opposite thing, you might be did not realize that you could make other people have those feeling. You became their toxic. When you sharing your photos and info who and where you hang out with and at, or things you buy or ate, there are so many unfortunate people who can’t do the same like you did.

Share great things which would be useful and make people happy when they see or read it. Avoid “negative” issue which could make people have negative thinks whether about their self or about you. “Unfollow” people who love share things which made you not happy or emotional. Try to avoid make a comment which possible cause some misunderstand or argue.

Create the healthy and happy atmosphere on your social media, as that is actually the main function being connected to more people. And other thing which more important is… go to the real social meeting, don’t trapped in the virtual world ~ which you have no idea how much the honest or fake things on it. Feel the real energy from people that you want to connect with. The signal or electromagnetic radiation is bad issue as well if you spent too much time with your gadget. Live in the real world, find your true friends!