Childhood is a Precious Time

I visited several cities lately and gave some sessions for a number of people there. Mostly the roots of their problems are their childhood issue. Unwanted feeling probably the common issue, also domestic violence issue.

Many of them also felt they had a childhood full of happiness since they have parents who indulge them with a lot of the material or facilities. But they do not realize that they lost a happy childhood because they did not have much time to play as a child on that moment or had to do things according to desire of their parents.

Did you know that childhood is the most important time for us as a seed to grow up happy with the values that we can at the time? If you grew not as a happy kid, you possible will carry that feeling until you are getting older. You will never satisfy for everything that you had. The real issue is actually the hole in your heart ~ that you need unconditional love. Even, the trauma possible causes some physical issue.

If you think you have a childhood issue that became a baggage for you until today, maybe you could you start to look back on those times, and try to forgive anyone and anything that makes you feel not happy. Then let’s move forward to new chapter where you have a lot of choice to do, anything which can make you happy with. You are living in present moment, not the past. Dont forget, you have a lot of unconditional loves from people around you!

One more thing, do not make a same mistake to your kids! Love them by let them grew with happiness, not with your ambition as parent.

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